Misogyny is so rampant in this world that males think they can simply sum women up in one word: beautiful. If I had a dollar for every time a man called me “Beautiful” like he knew me and that was my name, I’d be rich. Then, males usually would get…

I remember about 15 years ago, I would struggle to figure out where to get my news played in the morning. My favorite thing to do first thing in the morning is turn on the news and discover what new things happened while I slept. That might be dorky but…

I often tell myself that I won’t use my energy to address or even think about the creatures that I know are beneath me. But, I can’t help but wonder why anyone would hate a group of people so much when the group doing all the hating are the ones…

When my tribe, ADOS, yell out for reparations, whether it be in-person, on TV or social media, I see Congress or some white person say, “Reparations for Black people is divisive!” But, what is “divisive” to me, as a Black woman, is watching white people enjoy a different experience in…

I feel depressed as my family and I continue to endure the Covid-19 Pandemic. The only thing I can think to do at this point is to write my frustrations out. Last year, I tried to keep my spirits up by throwing myself into working alot. I was, at one…

And never date a guy who says “I’m sorry” too much but his behavior never changes. If a guy doesn’t sincerely apologize after he does something that hurts you, he doesn’t truly care about you. It’s that simple. No frills about it or overthinking necessary. Men are meant to protect…

It’s like pulling teeth to get so many agencies to get on board that a crime against African Americans is a hate crime. But, when violence occurs against Asian Americans, immediately “hate crime” is attached to their tragedies to make their tragedies more significant. I have a few theories for…

****Spoiler alert!**** If you haven’t seen the movie “Malcolm and Marie” and you don’t want to know what happened in the movie, especially the ending, then stop reading now. Netflix has a new movie out called Malcolm and Marie. I have to be honest, I had no real interest in…

No matter how much I hated a place, I always feel sad when it’s time to move on and say goodbye. Up until now, I never understood why. As my sons and I pack our things, I look around at all the boxes that are stacked in the dining room…